I know that some feminists and woke warriors might drag me for saying this, but I really don’t care at this moment because I’m determined to save lives.
Have you noticed the high incidence of slumping and death among women?
Have you not heard of the housewife who slumped and died right in her kitchen while cooking for her family?
Have you not read of a lady that concluded a real estate deal with a client on phone, only to check back later for more information and learn of the client’s sudden slumping and death?
Sudden death wasn’t that prevalent among young women in their 40s, say, 20 years ago.
I dare say before the advent and proliferation of smart phones and other technological gadgets.
Now, Social Media has been thrown into the mix. Everyday, many women are active on Apps such as Instagram, Snapchat, X, Facebook, TikTok, WhatsApp, Telegram, Pinterest, YouTube and numerous other blogs.
Nowadays, women are emboldened by the woke and feminist movements to poke their noses in all matters, and to insist on their fundamental human rights!
A married woman that wears multiple caps as marketing executive, shop owner, mother, wife and daughter to her parents among others now adds to it watchdog of her husband…
Which is why I’m advocating here and now for women to delete this practice of checking hubby’s phone for the sake of their mental and physical health!
Wait Ladies! Hear me out before you start throwing tantrums!!
So many women have unknowingly invited Messrs Depression, High blood pressure, Diabetes, Brain fog, Chronic Inflammations, Heart problems and Stroke into their lives through phone espionage!
Some are now harboring hitherto old age diseases meant for their grandmothers and taking medications for avoidable sicknesses.
Dear ladies, don’t fall for the gimmicks of the woke warriors and impale your health in the process.
I will tell you for free that you can’t police any man. Also, you can’t change anybody. I should know, because I’ve been married for close to 40 years! The only person I have changed so far is Me…..
As they say in street lingo in Nigeria, “Borrow yourself brain!”
Don’t be like Emmanuella, an investment banker in her 40s. She cloned her husband’s phone and found evidence of his cheating and packed out of her home.
After 4 years of playing single mom, raising 2 kids, career in tow, she herself is today a side chick to her ex-husband, and her landlord!
That’s on top of medicating her rabid loneliness, exhaustion, anxiety, depression, and high blood pressure with expensive medications.
In her quiet moments, she wishes for those languid Sunday afternoons when life was much easier….
But she has made her bed and she must lie on it……
To think that all these started with her iPhone!!!
By Mubo Okosun.
Editor: Women’s Hub.
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